Day 20

So my boy has been locked in his chastity device for around 20 days now. I don't count because firstly that's his job and secondly I'll let him out when I feel like it. As per a previous post we got this device custom made for him via a company based on China - Spices for Love. Now, flicking through their site there are a lot of photos from other companies and also badly photoshopped efforts, but in the section marked custom metal devices we found what we needed.

My boy is too big for most standard chastity cages. We broke the largest CB due to simple pressure from half suppressed erections and he just ended up irritated at all the ways it didn't work. Constantly filling the space meant it couldn't be cleaned properly and if I was anywhere near it would not go on at all. So off I sent him to do some research into custom pieces.

As you can it's very similar in design to a few metal devices done by other companies. The hinged ring was important for us as any ring he can slip over can be slipped back off with relative ease when locked. I don't plan on piercing him so this was my way of ensuring he isn't getting out. We got the measurements so the cage was just big enough to go on with ease and have space for some expansion for frustration purposes. The seller was helpful, payment could be made via PayPal and so avoid giving out card details and our total spend was dramatically less than from other sites.

We have had it 6 months now and in reasonably frequent use. There are no problems with quality, finish, durability or function. It is doing exactly what it's meant to do. I can get it on and off him without having to wait around and it's secure. The weight is a good reminder of who he belongs to and it does fit discreetly under clothing. He plays sports with it on too.

I am glad we took a chance on Spices For Love. It has worked out nicely.

Going metal

Ours is a little smaller than this....

Well, our CB6000 is broken. My boy rolled over in bed and it split right down the seam and trapped his skin as it tried to snap back together. He's managed to patch it back together but we are not happy to keep using it on a long term basis and so we're making the move over to a metal device.

The one in the picture is meant as a joke (although I may use it as a threat if he doesn't behave) but metal has the advantage of being more secure and easier to clean. With that comes a pricetag however which ranges from £100 - £600 for the ones we've been looking at. We've gone with a Chinese manufacturer for now with whom my boy has been conversing to get the right sizes (he's much bigger than many mass produced items allow for) and if it all works out well I shall post the exact details and any issues that we come up against.

It does however mean that currently he is free range, and has already been cheating and entertaining himself. This shall have to be remedied....

Tools of the trade

I mentioned this company a few posts back but wasn't able to link it up properly.

For anyone who wants excellently crafted tools of discipline that feel luxurious to hold and positively wicked to receive they should take a look at www.jacksfloggers.com. The pictured set are not my own personal ones, but the same wood and turned to the same level of craftsmanship.

I purchased a matching set in mexican cocobolo consisting of a dragon cane, horsehair flogger, shock cord flogger and matched pair ball handled floggers. The prices were incredibly reasonable for such a high level of quality and would suit any discerning Mistress with a sense of style.

Making plans

Artist: Bill Ward
www.womenofward.net 

Tomorrow I have a day off work whilst my boy will be busy away from home. I have been giving some thought to spending some "quality time" with him when he gets backand how best to make use of him. I'm not exactly your typical Mistress type and I do fully plan to make him a nice dinner. As much as he is wonderful in many other ways, the kitchen is not his strongest suit. The rest of the evening, however, I will be keeping him busy.

I am rather fond of the little luxuries in life. Nice wine, chocolates, hot baths... I see no reason why I can't have them served and poured for me! I am usually rather spoiled in that my boy has always naturally done these things for me without even being asked, but given his current chastened state I am sure he will be extra keen to ensure that I am satisfied. If he is particularly lucky I may even decide I'd like a little company in the bath and all the possible teasing that could entail.

I know my boy likes to be restrained. I knew that even before we started dating. It has been quite some time since I had him properly bound however and I plan to remedy that. I can't have him thinking I'm some kind of pushover! We have what sometimes feels like a limitless supply of padlocks and chains which have a quite satisfying heaviness to them and the feeling of absolute security once the lock clicks. Deciding exactly how to have him bound is something I may end up deliberating on right up until the last moment. I would like good access to tease him, but also have him positioned correctly to pleasure me without all that tedious unlocking. It may also be time to introduce him properly to discipline now that I have my exquisitely made cane and floggers from http://www.jacksfloggers.com/ which I certainly recommend checking out. I have custom turned wooden handles in the most gorgeous of woods which feel much classier than some of the mass produced nonsense on sale out there.

Alas, it is time to go for now. I shall be thinking in more detail about how best to torment my boy and most likely report back afterwards