August adventures

It's been quite a busy time for me recently and so I haven't been able to keep up to date with the blog. Fortunately it has been very good things that have been keeping me occupied.

I've been giving some consideration to a new plot for a short story that I plan to get started on soon. It concerns a successful businessman who considers himself to be quite in control who meets and falls for a young woman who teaches him that he can't always have what he wants. I started a short section of it already but have managed to misplace the file, but as soon as I find it I will post it up!

I've been shopping too, or rather I have been getting shopping done for me (much appreciated, young man). I'm awaiting delivery of a rather lovely pair of latex hotpants in... you guessed it... leopard print from Rubber55. I'm a big fan of latex and have had my eye on some leopard print pieces for a while to add to my wardrobe for going out to events. These will go rather nicely with my black latex catsuit from Westward Bound which has a rather cheeky cutaway section at the derrière. Hopefully I will find somewhere suitable to wear the whole ensemble out to in the near future.

In a more traditional matter I have been enjoying a new garter belt from StockingsHQ which has meant I have been able to wear all my favourite stockings more often. It is always rather fun spotting those men who know good lingerie when out and about when they spot my seams and give a knowing smile. I have no idea why they fell out of fashion.

And so on to the weekend. I have an evening of pampering to look forward to with champagne, chocolate, sumptuous bathing and a massage courtesy of an incredibly fine young gentleman. What more could a girl ask for?

Long time, no post

It's been quite a while since I last posted. Life has been quite chaotic leaving very little time to be online and give proper attention to writing.

I have been taking a look into one of the more contested internet fetishes: financial domination. From the outside this appears to be a group of money grabbing "Mistresses" who prey on the wallets of the gullible, but that's probably about as fair as saying all fetishists are dangerous perverts. There are some Insta-Mistresses thinking that all they need to do is chant "I WANT I WANT I WANT" and the men will come flocking, but there are a much quieter group who understand the mechanics of the transaction. Some are in it for the money, others are in it for the power. To use another comparison you have some people who understand fetish & BDSM, and you have others who use it as a way to get sex.

Financial domination is about power; money is a by-product. To compel a perfectly competent adult to hand over control of their hard earned cash, even when it may mean going without the things they desire for themselves, is a fascinating art. My own experience in the past was of men who would spend and spend to try fulfil my every desire, but I did not handle the money directly. His devotions via gifts were the power exchange for me and I certainly have never needed the wallet of a submissive to keep me in the manner to which I am accustomed. If I need cash I will go down to the bank and withdraw it myself!

Skimming the surface of the online world of Financial Domination however would have you believe that a good subbie pays for Mistress' gas bill even though she is a complete stranger, wants to keep her name from you and won't give you the time of day. There are, I'm sure, many men out there who get off on being used and humiliated, but to do that to a satisfactory level there needs to be interaction beyond filling in bank details. I'm not really into humiliation or remote blackmail but from what I understand of it there's more to it than just posting up on a message board "PAY ME NOW, PIG!" (and for those of you who haven't looked into this, it really does happen) and I mentally have it stored next to the "KNEEL, BITCH!" mentality of clueless men approaching female submissives.

I started a bit of an experiment in the gap between this post and my last. I started up a gift list and posted quietly on a few forums that I was interested in speaking to finsubs about their interests. A few good gentleman replied (plus a few crude asses for good measure) and helped answer some questions about financial play from the submissive perspective, and now I have had my first tributes gifted. A couple of them were anonymous and none of the men I was talking to claimed responsibility. I will however thank AH for the chocolates which I am still enjoying a little at a time! It could be an interesting comparison to try a few ranty demanding posts with no reciprocal chat and see what the response is!